Dear Husband ....
when was the last time we talked sweet nothings ??
When was the last time we held each other's hand and sat in silence ?
When was the last time we remembered and talked through our early days of love ?
When was the last time we felt completely in awe with each other ?
When was the last time we sat together and enjoyed the sea in silence ?
When was the last time we had our tea together talked about ONLY US ?
When was the last time we appreciated each other for the new dress / hair style etc ?
when was the last time I pestered you to tell me " How much you love me " and " how much I meant to you " ??
When was the last time we looked into each other's eyes ?
When was the last time we discussed about changes in our likes and dislikes ?
Our days are filled with work tensions , updates about the daughters ..
our conversations revolve around schools,kids mischief, newborn's day , office , work calls ..
Our outings are to restaurants , toy shops , hospitals and schools ..
Our excitements come from "Test Marks" , Smiles from kiddos ,
When are we going to have " WE TIME " ??
There were times we "STAYED together " even if we were phyisically miles away.. Now We STAY TOGETHER " but the souls are wandering really miles away...
When are we going to "renew " our relationship as "Husband and Wife " ?
When are we going to realize that there is also something beyond " Parenthood" ?
When are we going to get excited about having each other's company alone ?
when are we going to "FALL IN LOVE WITH EACH OTHER AGAIN ? " ....
Yours lovingly ,
Mother Of your kids ( Wife ??? )
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Sayee, nee ippadi yellam kuda yezhudhuviya...hahahah..ReplyDelete
The other side of me ;) ..... hahahaha ..ReplyDelete
On a serious note , I thought we really lose ourselves in parenthood... It is good to see a husband and wife getting transformed into Father and Mother and doing their duty perfectly .. But is that all ? where is the companionship ? Just to add spice , I had made it bit romantic .. But honestly , the friendship, the need for each other is replaced by duties duties duties !! I dont believe in a traditional husband and wife relationship .. IF marriage is to share one's life with another , then it has to be interesting no matter how many kids u have rit ... :)
nice letter, sayee! I have this feeling when I watch a mushy hollywood movie :)ReplyDelete
- True we have lost ourselves in the world of parenthood like every other Indian parent :)ReplyDelete
- Atleast the moms have ;)
- wondering if the husbands become bachelors yet again after the kids are born :D
- On a positive note...Am sure this love letter will work ;D
@ Shylu ... i just read a M & B yday .. ( for a change) so this letter... ehehhee hReplyDelete
@ Gayu - Sorry de ..u guessed it wrong ... This never works with Abin .. He read and said " No comments" .. I heard this word million times in the last 10 yrs :)
Gurrrl, i feel you, i really do! Despite being married for only two years and despite having no kids...!ReplyDelete
! enna solradune teriyala ponne.. this seems to be too true and down to the core...There is so much happening... just not us :) is it for good or bad, I wouldnt know ;)ReplyDelete
Nice one...from the heart .....ReplyDelete